badbadputer

badbadputer last signed in Nov 19 2009 and has been on Bukisa since Feb 16, 2009.

About Me:

I recently discovered that I am way too hard on myself in regards to issue's that have occured in my past.Â Although a lot of my friends and family saw it clearly, of course I did not.

About a year ago I found myself writing a letter to a person directly involved in such an issue with my past, while I was re-reading what I had just written, for the first time I was able to see for myself just exactly how hard I was on myself for things/events that I had no control over.

Now, a year later I still find that writing helps me in more ways than one, and the biggest reward is that it is something that I found I truly enjoy doing and enjoy meeting new people in those who have read what I write.

I have discovered great new sites and many new people, and it all started with one simple letter.Â By the way, this first letter was never sent as the person who it was addressed to lost his will to survive in life 5 months before I even wrote it.

My personal blogging site:

http://badbadputer.blogspot.com

My other article site:

http://www.ehow.com/members/badbadputer.html

My Light, My Heart

Published April 30, 2009 /

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When it comes to the experiences that are associated with life, some people are able to deal with things head on, while others find comfort with the help of others, and some haven't discovered the strength or courage within themselves to move on. When it comes to life, we all

My Friend, My Enemy

by badbadputer | in Relationships > Friends and Neighbors

Whether you have one friend or several of them, the bonds shared can last years, even paving the way for the children that either of you have to maintain a lifelong friendship of their own. Is there ever a moment in time when this friendship should end? How do you break the bond, and is it ever really broken?
Maintaining Your Sanity.... oh wait, look, the ex......

by badbadputer | in Relationships > Dating

Whether you are dating someone, or have gone the distance and have committed to each other through marriage, one thing will hold true, more than likely there is an ex, somewhere. The possibility of maintaining a civil tongue can actually be a reality, read on.................
Words (Part 4) Making Them Yours

by badbadputer | in Relationships > General

Whether a relationship ends on amicable terms or not, there is usually something significant that has been said or done during the final moments. When this action has etched itself into your mind or heart, dealing with it can prove very difficult, but letting it go or finding forgiveness can seem near impossible.
Words (Part 3) Redirecting Life

by badbadputer | in Relationships > General

When words tend to determine which direction we go either in our own mind or how we deal with personal issue's, sometimes it's hard to find the strength to accept that we do not own them personally and perhaps it is time that they are placed back at the feet of those who spoke them.
Words (Part 2) A Misdirected Meaning

by badbadputer | in Relationships > Dating

In relationships, whether family, friends or a romantic interest, words can be spoken and at times heard out of context. There are some meant as suggestions or advice, or meant purely to hurt. There are some that are spoken in anger without thought, unfortunately the pain felt with this is enough to overshadow forgiveness or understanding.
Words (Part 1) Do They Define You

by badbadputer | in Relationships > General

All too often we find ourselves allowing the words of others to define us as individuals. We may find ourselves in the midst of an argument or a simple conversation, and without hesitation or thought, find ourselves trying to live up to the degree expected of us, without even realizing it.
When Love Is Not Enough

by badbadputer | in Relationships > Dating

There are some relationships that last many years uninterrupted, and then there are those that start and end as often as a standard week. When is it time to accept the inevitable and be honest with yourself? What signs are there, but perhaps not being recognized? Once discovered, can you truly move on without the guilt?
Forgiveness Starts With You

by badbadputer | in Relationships > General

Whether by relationship, friendship or our own family ties there are moments in life when forgiveness and understanding are needed, but not necessarily required in the direction that we believe. In some cases, you may be lead to your beliefs by family, news, religion and even the internet, but it should always start and end with you.
Closure and Moving On

by badbadputer | in Relationships > Marriage

Being in Love is not only one of great emotion, but can also be one of the most heart wrenching moments in a persons life. What happens when you believe you have found your Soul Mate, only to discover later that your relationship and belief of each other couldn't be further from the truth? Are you repeating a cycle?