Divorce Advice for Man who Still Loves Wife

If you’re a man that is getting divorced and you still love your wife, It can feel like you are sitting in the driver’s seat of a car that is about to crash and flip over. After all, you still love this woman and you want her back. You certainly don’t want to go your separate ways. The question then becomes, how do you end marriage when you partner wants out and you are there feeling helpless... and in love. Well, in this article, we will discuss this and more. We will tell you what to do when you’ve tried just about everything. When you’ve tried romantic dates, dressing nicer, and even giving flowers. We’ll tell you what to do when her response has been, "too little, too late".

Pray for your wife regularly and keep your heart compassionate about her. Wish her the best that life has to give and ask God for help in making you a better person. After all, God is the strand that holds relationships together and he is the only one that can turn a completely hopeless situation around – if you ask for his help and allow him to work his magic.

Second, read book on relationships and understanding the difference between men and women. Realize that you can’t change your partner and can only change yourself. One great book is 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus' and the “Five Languages of Love” by Smiley.  These books will teach you the differences between men and women and how you can use those differences to communicate effectively.

Third you should seek spiritual counseling about any issues that negatively affected your relationship. For instance, if you tended to be verbally abuse or drank too much, then you need to work on your anger and get into a 12 step program now. By doing so, you’ll show yourself and your spouse that people really can change.

Third, you must realize the truth. As a a divorced man who is still in love with his wife you really only have three options. You can either: move on, move forward or stay in the past.  Those men who move forward and become a better person, are the ones that are likely to win their wives back. Those that stay in the past most likely don’t.

Fourth, you must demonstrate to her that you are a better and more loving person than you were in the past. This can be done by indeed changing and then meeting with her on a casual basis. Once you do, you can then demonstrate your differences and how you’ve improved without chasing her .  She will then become more attracted to you and realize that she wants you back.

In conclusion, if you are in a situation where you are a divorced man who is still in love with his wife, my advice to you is this: be prayerful and stay hopeful that things can work out, work on becoming a better person and clearing up any issues that separated you and demonstrate that you’ve changed. By doing this, you can show her how much you car and woo her back into your arms. Good luck!