So What Do Men Really Want?

So what is it that really turns a man inside out? There are countless books and blogs out there, ladies, that surround this topic of interest. Sadly, they are mostly written by over-worked, under-appreciated women that think they have the latest and greatest information on an opposite gender that they have yet to fully understand. Pick up your pencils ladies because I'm about to tell you how to rock your man's world so hard it will leave him coming back for more!

First of all let's enter the world of man. It doesn't take long to figure out that we men are extremely visually stimulated creatures. From the beer ads with big busted blondes to the countless forms of pornographic content that infiltrate our email systems, it's no mystery that a man is turned on by the "colorful candy" that is put in front of him. This type of information is supposedly common knowledge but honestly, the good women of this world have ignored the obvious. We men have been marked as shallow, skin thirsty animals that will jump at the first sign of erotic vulnerability, when sadly, in most cases, this is true. My thought is, why not be that next erotic fantasy that your husband has. Why not tell him that you can't wait to get naked with him? Why not beat those big busted blondes to the punch and tell him he doesn't have to buy a case of beer to get lucky, but if he'll empty the dishwasher and pick up the living room, he's sure to get a surprise? Ahh...see where I'm going with this?

I know that there is a lot that surrounds a healthy sexual relationship. Self esteem, self image, and over-all love an affection for your spouse all have a great deal to do with it. What I am saying is be the first appealing entree on your husband's plate. Sure the cashier at Winn Dixie may have bigger boobs than you do but can they please YOUR man like YOU can? The bartender might have great legs but has she ever landed a catch like you have? Your man needs to know that you think he's HOT. Now, I know the years are better to some than they are others. This doesn't mean that we talk about expanding waist-lines, beer-bellies, or cellulite. You made the vow to love unconditionally as well as he did. Your husband needs to feel as comfortable with you as you do with him. If this is where the issue lies, then you may need to read another article! Be the first one to tell him you think he's sexy. Be the first one to offer him a treat. I can promise you, if you don't, someone else will!

My wife has me wrapped around her little finger, and I'm not ashamed to admit that! I'm whipped and I enjoy every minute of it! Don't be afraid to use your God given assets. Tell him that it turns you on when he notices the dirty clothes piling up and starts a load. Let him know that you noticed he bathed the kids and put them to bed early tonight. You'll find that the results will be manifold. You'll get some extra house work done and get some in the process!

As well as being visually stimulated we are very in tune with what's been said, contrary to popular belief! The reason that we "don't listen" is because we feel like we have heard what is being said before. It's like a recording playing over and over in our head. Catch him by surprise and tell him something you may have not told him in a while like, "you need a shower! Do you need a hand while you're in there?" When my wife catches me off guard like this, I get lost for words! That's hard to believe!

After several years of marriage it can be hard to maintain that spark that you had before. The most important thing to remember is that you don't want that OLD spark. It's long gone and is not worth rekindling. You want a NEW spark! Find ways to reconnect with him. Find what he is in to and no matter how hard it is, show legitimate interest. He will never be "into you" if you never show that you are "into him." Watch one of his cage fights with him, or NASCAR race. We might not act like it, but we have feelings too! Buried deep inside the hard outer shell of a man is just a little boy that needs a woman! Let him know that you are his number one fan and you support him no matter what.

As far as the bedroom is concerned, you be the judge of that! Men don't need porn star sex to feel satisfied! Let's face it, the end result is the same anyway you chose to play it. You know what he likes...he likes SEX! Never withhold sex as a form of "punishment" as this will always turn out bad. Instead, make it an adventure. Make him feel as though he has earned the right to be your partner, and if he has not earned it, think of ways to make him feel that he has. I have personally jumped through many hoops to ensure my good standing with my wife and it didn't down-play anything that I did to achieve it. It's an understanding, a common place for you and your spouse to come together. You have your expectations and he has his. There is nothing wrong with that.

I'm not a counselor, nor a life coach. I simply know what has worked for me and my wife in our marriage. Bottom line is you have to be willing to give into the relationship to expect anything out of it. Recognize your spouse as a person. Not just any person, but the one that you chose to spend the rest of your life with. With that burst of confidence you'll be asking me how to get him to go to sleep and leave you alone! That I'll save for another article! Stay in love and go get busy with your man!

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