Relationships and Manifestation.

As we grow up then our love is based on a lot of fallacies. Besides what you learned by observing your parents you also learn from the community you grow up in. Their love is also pretty much ego based. Real love is so subtle you cannot see it from the outside that clearly. So through observation you learn about “cheating” being hurt and betrayal. From ego perspective love has a limit. So you fear your lover might choose someone else over you. You become possessive and jealous and the real love that was there slowly gives in to resentment. Actually it never gives in it is always prevalent but the other issues now overcrowds the love. It hides it because your love is now overcrowded and diluted with stronger feelings from the ego.

The way most societies has it set up love is an “all or nothing” deal. When you discover you love some stranger you are not allowed to talk about it for many reasons. First of all we are have monogamy. Thus before you tell someone you love them you have to first make sure that it is safe right? Maybe this person has a partner already, which means they will consider you as some kind of threat. You might make the partner jealous. Besides that hearing “I love you” has so much more attached to it than what we actually say, from ego perspective. There are so many assumptions going through our minds even though none of it was spoken. We then assume a lot of things.

We think of virtually all Hollywood movies where the declaration of love leads to kissing and sex. Normally the first time it is declared too. After sex happened we automatically have further expectations. Ok then we must probably move in together sometime in the future and in the meantime we have to stop showing our love and appreciation for other people because we are “committed” to someone now. In all unfairness we now have to expect that someone to be everything for us. A great responsibility. Then there is also the person’s baggage to consider.

All this is brought about by the priests and politicians who laid down morality for us in a way that suited the governments they worked for. They literally exploited our human nature to enable them to control us en masse. We are much more powerful as humans than what most people would have you believe. We have amazing abilities and they are simply part of who we are. The very core of being human is to be a creator but all our extraordinary powers that are inherent in us are being fed or channeled if you will. It comes through that space, that portal that connects us to the devine. That portal remains open.

You will know the portal is open when you feel the flow of unconditional love, joy, inspiration and creativity flowing through you. These attributes of humanity does not come from anywhere but inside us, through us. The portal is never closed but we clog it with ego stuff. Ego stuff is mostly mind stuff.. Mind is like the filter that clogs this flow to a mere trickle. We have the intelligence of Gods but we limited that down to the intelligence of dictionaries. That’s all the mind is. The mind is an amazing word processor. That’s how we use it. Our whole intellect is limited down to mere words and the mathematical grammatical placement of those words. Intelligence allows us to scramble and re scramble them until they come up with profound wisdom and ingenious inventions. This is all wonderful and beautiful but there are so much more to us than mere mathematical thinking.

Before we had the ability to feel the flow of our God intelligence, the wordless intelligence we were taught many fallacies about life and who we are. What motivates people to do this to their own kind? Tradition and fear. The ones who taught us are only teaching us what they were taught down in generations. Where did it begin? Who knows and who cares? We are here now and we have to deal with this situation as it is now. We have to wake up to the glory of what we are regardless of our history. Toiling with history find out who is responsible for what is just another ego ply that prevents us from waking up.

I dare say that many of these teachings we took for granted are directly in our way. They are “orchestrated” in such a way that our very human nature is being used as a means to prevent us from becoming the unconditional creators that we are. They are set up to activate the exact ego traits that prevent people from realizing themselves. They create remorse, guilt, un-fulfillment, self-punishment, condemnation, vengeance, vindictiveness, fear, betrayal and all the negative traits of ego we learned to live with. At the center of these we find condemnation. Not Judgment. Judgment is fine but within judgment you find approval and condemnation. Acceptance and rejection.

I don't want to go into all of it right now but to give you one simple example of how we work against ourselves with these manufactured beliefs is through sexual shame. There is absolutely nothing wrong with sex. It is part of our experience in being human. We don’t talk about it because it’s shameful. So here comes self-judgment and self worth going down. So now we are one step further away from self-realization. What’s next? 

“When you want sex you have to pair up.” Ok now in our process of waking up and discovering life we also have to halt now and first try to figure someone else out. Our partner. We could have had sex in friendship and continue on our own mission to discover ourselves in the meantime. But now we have to halt the process because it is a guaranteed fact that when two immature egos share the same space in the same dwelling there is bound to be clashes. At best one evolves and suppresses the other. At the age where we are ready to experience sex we are not yet unconditional enough to live with someone in harmony.

“Conception is guaranteed.” That’s another fallacy we create and also fear. Conception is a choice. We are creators. We can have sex without making babies. Making us believe the fallacy is making us create the fallacy. Thus conception is a creation, a choice. It is a mind belief like all manifestation and thus a creation. Thanks to contraceptives we can now once again enjoy sex without the added creation of our fears. We are sleeping creators. We will create anything anyone can make us believe en masse.

We simply cannot do away with sex. It is set up in our very nature. Now it has become the biggest shame we carry. When you enter puberty you had desires to have sex. These were part of being human and entirely natural, but we were taught to judge and condemn it and thus negate a big part of who we are. Now after believing all this who is going to convince you that you are a God in the process of waking up? You already had desires you would not dare tell anyone about. You are already shameful. Your self esteem is trying to deal with this “secret” of yours. How will you now wake up to your ultimate power when you believe you don’t deserve it?

Remove a man from his God and you can own him. All these teachings are the stumbling blocks that removed us from our divinity. It only takes two to three generations of indoctrinations to change a bloodline into some belief that never was. After that the people who fear change will keep it anchored down for all generations to come. Those people we know as skeptics. These people believe they hold on to a truth that always was but in fact they are only holding onto an indoctrination that was taught generations before they were born, in a dogmatic way. They too are only trying to make the best sense of what we have but what we have is already a fallacy.

There is a lot of unlearning to do. The shortest method to open up to the unconditional flow of your God energy is to stop thinking altogether. All our ego stuff is only mind created. It’s only glorified constructions from a word processor. When you switch the word processor off then all the laws and constructions collapse and then there is no obstruction to the free flow of you divine intelligence. Now some people can manage to stop thinking for a short time. Long enough to create miracles. But break down your condemnation and negative judgment on anything you were ever taught, and you find that miracles is a way of life. You find spontaneous manifestations for your desires happening all the time.