Knowing when a relationship is in trouble

Some relationships can go sour for any reason, feelings change, people just grow apart, and one partner may become interested in somebody else. My experience with relationships has taught me to be aware of certain signs that point to an obvious problem between two people. I have listed these warning signs as a guide to suggest trouble in a relationship.

The first one I feel is important is a lack of affection; no hugging, kissing, holding hands, compliments, etc. The next warning sign would be when the words “I love you” become rare or stop. The third warning sign is observing your partner checking out other people when you’re in public together. Another sign to be aware of is when your partner shows little or no interest in having sex with you, and in the past it was a common occurrence. Other little signs that could point to infidelity are: your partner is self absorbed with his / her looks; face, hair, body, clothes, etc.

Another warning sign is all of the above signs I’ve mentioned are there but he or she is talking and treating you extra nice. If you have observed your boyfriend or girlfriend displaying three or more of these warning signs in your relationship, you have cause for concern. What you decide to do is up to you; everyone has their own way of making their selves happy, you have to find what brings happiness into your life and don’t let others take you for granite because you are so special to  many others.