Husband and wife What are the main causes of the quarrel

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  Survey, the average couple quarrel once every two days. They are arguing is that the largest number of issues relating to their children, such as who should care for their children, who educate our children and give parents bad habits, such as the impact of the child.

  The allocation of household chores such as shopping and household chores is a husband and wife quarrel caused the second largest major factor. Followed by communication problems. In addition, because the couple will be free time, relatives, friends and other issues and disputes.

  Surprisingly, despite the current financial crisis, but the husband and wife do not quarrel for the money, and only 18% of the causes in the sixth. However, because of economic problems are usually difficult to obtain quickly, and therefore the impact of husband-wife relationship is the most far-reaching and serious factor.

  British Broadcasting Corporation Web site quoted the psychologists on the 22nd Paula - Hal, then reported that the dispute stems from different views. However, if both parties to be patient, together with the basic communication skills, calm down soon, "the flames of war."

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  Hal said, the couple quarrel everyday life may be affected by the impact of their early.

  For example, if one small thing wrong on a fine gardening, after marriage, she or he was a partner may require trimming the lawn will be angry.

  In addition, the couple quarrel may represent the relations between the two men that they are secretly "war." Hall said, such as Who are paying the price because the two arguments, the representatives of the two are arguing about who was responsible, who have the initiative; for domestic quarrel, the two representatives of "respect" and "values" issues have not been achieved demand.

  For some couples, marriage and the stability of a useful argument from time to time, as it may be to exchange their point of view the only way. Minor harmless to their marriage but also add some "seasoning", but also allow the other party to pay more attention to each other.

  However, Al reminded quarrels often caused by deep-seated. If you can not find and solve the problem as soon as possible, married life will have been subject to dispute as well.

  Children to avoid

  British children, primary and secondary schools and the Ministry of Family Affairs Minister of State Beverly - Hughes said earlier, the couple quarrel in front of the children to the children and the impact of the pressure brought about far more than their imagination.

  UK two-year "good childhood" The survey shows that compared with their parents, their children to pay more attention to family harmony. 70% of the children that the family is the most important thing parents together, love each other, get along well, but only 30% of adults hold this view.

  Therefore, Hughes said that parents should be aware that a child's sense of security to a large extent from the relationship between the parents. Encounter problems, parents should not hide the children, it is important "to show them the confidence to solve the problem and are working together to work" and not in front of the children bickering on certain issues.