Why Controlling Women Will End Your Relationship With Them

It’s not hard to understand that controlling women will scare them away. It’s often that men are the controlling partner and not the women but you do have women that are very controlling too and more so if they’re dependent on the other person for financial needs like money or shelter. It would help if you become independent and don’t depend on other people or else you will end up with abuse and control problems. You might be lucky if your man treats you right, but even celebrities have abuse and controlling issues and no man out there is that perfect anyways. You just have to watch out for your own well being.

If you’re a man, you should know that behavior like controlling your partner will definitely send them out the door. They will look for every possible way to escape your relationship and that even means calling the police, running away, or even doing things to you. A lot of relationship ends up on the news over someone dying as a result of physical fight. It can get really bad. I don’t recommend controlling anyone out there. If you can’t win in a relationship, it’s time to find another relationship. You don’t have to jail people because you might have to pay for it later on. It’s illegal to hold people hostage too.

Often the man control the woman because he’s afraid that she will leave him or cheat on him or that he can find anyone else. The man can control the woman because he thinks that she’s his property and he is just trying to justify for his past spending on her. Some men think women are their property after they spend a lot of money to married them or on them so they should be able to control it likes a property. I know this is the case with some countries outside of the US, where women or the bride is view as a bought property and they can do whatever that they pleased but this is not the case in the US, but some ethnic people still practice this habits. I do see it in my family; my father is very controlling of his wife and children to the point where we would rather live in a crack than with him. I think it’s sad for my family but some men will never learn.

I think women find you more loving and more desirable if you don’t control them. They might view you as intelligent and great to be in love with rather than your controlling habits. I think that it’s a psychological thing, where the woman feel like they want to stick to you when keep an open door with them. They feel like they need you and want to be with you because you seem to be neglecting them. The more you control them, the more they will want to leave you. It’s just a mental thing. People will want to do whatever that is that you don’t want them to do. I think it will scare them and you will lose the relationship if you’re too controlling so it’s best for you to learn to be open with women. They will come to you more.