First Date Guide for Dummies and Novice Player

Before you go to the date, keep you expectations low . Thus if everything goes well, you will be pleased and if it doesn’t, you will not be too disappointed. This works wonders for blind dates, Internet dating and also curbs nervousness. Do not ever expect to get your first kiss there.

Next principle is you have to open minded all the time . Agree if your date would like to switch venues or try a different cuisine. This is your first date though, let’s not fight. Perhaps later on you will know the reason behind it.

Be sincere . There’s nothing to lose on a first date. First date is just about the overview of your potential partner, you just don’t go deep to his/her introduction, content and even the conclusion. No need to play games here. Open window, let your partner get to know you as well.

Acceptance. Accept your date the way he/she is. If you feel uncomfortable, reject him/her gracefully. Your partner should understand that this is the first date, the chances is still at 50-50.

Listen. You should practice active listening skills. Sometimes, nod your head to agree. Don’t think about other things even if you feel bored about your partner telling what brands he/she holds in the closet.

Smile . Soften your eyes and allow the happiness to shine through. Create an inviting and comfortable environment for sharing communication.

Keep a pleasant eye contact. Do not stare. Make your partner feel comfortable and interested on you. Remain focus on him/her.

Subtle flirt is accepted. Show your romantic and sexier side in you. Make your partner feel that there are only two of you in the room.