Understanding 5 Reasons Why Men Do Not Break up With Unstable Women

On and on one of my friends who considers himself a hunk falls for unstable women and eventually gets hurt. Apparently, he is not the only one. There are several male victims all around the world who cannot seem to cut ties with unstable women. But their reasons for choosing what they have vary according to their philosophies, fear and situation. Here the top five of them.

1. “Tradition says that I need to be with her”: This is the belief system of those men who are used to having a happy family.  The father says that a tough man never leaves his woman no matter how she is! That sure is a great philosophy. Unfortunately, some men do not understand as to how and where to utilize it. So they let themselves be victims of vampire like women.

2. “If I leave her I will never find anyone else to share my life with”:  This kind of reason is given by men who really need to understand that there are plenty of fish in the sea. Interestingly, these men are not really in love with the unstable women, but with the idea of being in a relationship.

3. “I like what I cannot have”: This is the problem of men who love taking up challenges. But women are neither games nor projects from a difficult university class! They are flesh and blood and also have a brain that allows them to use free will to be either positive or negative. It is odd that the men who like analytical things in their lives cannot see that.

4. “I need a trophy wife”:  By definition, trophy wife is a woman who acts as a decoration piece for her husband in social gatherings.  She is actually taken into a marriage because of her beauty. Now men always dream of having a beautiful wife. Some of them, however, with time, manage to understand that marriage is just more than being with a woman. But those do not can only be saved by the heaven! After all, a relationship based on lust and show off does not see the dawn.

5.  “I am the father of her children”: This is a situation often faced by the married men. Perhaps, prior to the marriage, the women seemed stable. But as time passes by after marriage, different negative circumstances drive them to turn into psychos. But the love of children, make the men to compromise and stay in the marriage. 

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