How to Attract a Scorpio Man

The Scorpio man has a magnetism about him that's hard to resist. His aura of power and mystery make him all the more enticing, as well as his unpredictable presence. However, his flaws in the love department are transparent, more so than any other area of his life. His nature is one of extremes, and nothing brings this out more than sex.

If all you want is a one night stand, his energy and passion make that an easy task. Forming a lasting relationship with a Scorpio man is much more difficult. This isn't because he doesn't want a relationship, but because he is so sensitive and easily hurt that he often feels lonely and unfulfilled.

A Scorpio man can be jealous, defensive, and keep unexpressed anger buried inside. He's notorious for his tendency to string a woman along, for as long as it pleases him, and to cut her loose when he's bored. When her heart is broken, he doesn't understand why she's so angry, feeling as though he's the only one with a right to be vindictive.

Although the Scorpio man appears likeable and easy going, he is also secretive and hard to fathom. What you see on the outside is only what he wants you to see. Even when he's being friendly, there's still a danger to him, hiding just beneath the surface. Ironically, this is often what makes him most attractive.

Scorpio man is aware of how attractive he is to women, and he makes the most of it. When he approaches lovemaking, he plans his moves carefully, never wasting time, but also never appearing to rush. He is forceful and direct, and there are few women who won't respond to his physical passion. He has the unique ability to bring out the full sensual nature of any woman.

The Scorpio man is one of the best and most unique love-makers in the zodiac, because he understands a woman's needs - and will try to meet them, as long as he doesn't feel threatened by her. He will never allow a woman to dominate him, either in the bedroom or out. He can be hard to handle, but will make a woman feel like a Goddess - if she can take it.

Attracting a Scorpio Man

The Scorpio man is known for his unpredictability, but there are a few general rules of thumb that may help you understand what attracts him most. The first, and most important, rule is to listen to him with all your attention. He will always know when you're feigning interest, and that will end his interest in you.

Scorpios are notoriously curious. Never tell him anything that's happened without including the how and why of it. Doing this will make him view you as dull or superficial, and the Scorpio man will not tolerate a dull or superficial woman.

If you're considering asking a Scorpio man for a date, they love most outdoor recreation activities, but especially water sports. A day at the beach, on a boat, fishing, or water skiing will be a delight to Scorpio. He also enjoys parties, social affairs, charities, and other events where he can associate with successful people.

A Scorpio man will rarely get into an argument. However, if you do have a disagreement, be as respectful as possible. Scorpios take themselves very seriously, and don't believe their opinions should be discounted - even in good humor.

The Scorpio Man and You

The Scorpio man is best matched with Cancer, Capricorn, and Pisces. Combinations that are doomed to fail include Aries, Taurus, Gemini, Leo, Virgo, Libra, Scorpio, Sagittarius, and Aquarius. Occasionally, a pairing of Scorpio and Virgo may work, but only if both are truly committed to the relationship.

Cancer is a passive sign and can easily deal with the Scorpio man's unpredictable nature. Passion in the bedroom helps cool down any other differences. Scorpio offers strength and protectiveness, which is exactly what insecure, clingy Cancer needs. In return, Cancer is faithful, loving and devoted - everything that the Scorpio man wants.

Capricorn and the Scorpio man often share a warm emotional relationship, with all of Scorpio's passions and volatile emotions finding a home in brooding, introverted Capricorn. Even Scorpio's jealousy makes Capricorn feel secure. Together, they make a determined, ambitious, and financially successful pair.

Pisces also makes a great match for the Scorpio man, as both of their intense emotional needs are met by one another. Pisces is imaginative, which sparks Scorpio's creativity. Pisces' intuitive nature and Scorpio's depth of feeling fuel a special closeness, which leads to a lasting relationship.