How to Overcome the Awkwardness of a One Night Stand

Who wants to be righteous when a hottie is trying to get to bed with you? Specially for the young age, most sexually active men and women cannot resist the temptation and commit this act.

After the hot action, the bad and awkward story begins; the reality comes in the motion and you can see the real color and faces of your sexual partner. Most of the time, you do not like what you see – you were just very drunk the previous night and the action was because of the spirit of the liquor. Regrets and embarrassment settle in that produces the feelings of guilt and feelings of exploitation. But there are ways to prevent it from over-occupying your brain on the way home. Here are the ways:

a.)    Talk to your partner – it is awkward yes but silent treatment is more awkward and the whole morning will be a bad day if you keep it silent. You can talk to your partner with a smile and tell her/him what a night it was. Try to act jolly, you’ll notice that you wouldn’t feel the 100% guilt because you feel  a little uplifted if you and your partner can talk a bit.

b.)    Wash-up – you can wash up together, trust me you can feel a little comfortable with him or her. The messy awkwardness was the result of the discomfort. It is usually good to experience the person before dumping him or her. At least you can tell yourself, he’s not bad. Washing up together can add to a little intimacy and at least you wouldn’t feel tore apart a bit. Who knows he/she maybe more than just a one night stand.

c.)    Don’t go home yet but have a coffee break in a close coffee shop with your partner – this is a good way to be a little familiar with your partner. Like I told you awkwardness is the result of being uncomfortable. So try to erase the guilt by trying to be comfortable. Of course this is only applicable if your partner wants to be with you in that day longer.

d.)    Don’t judge the person – she/he went out with you in a one night stand doesn’t mean s/he is doing it often. Be real here, they are also tempted like you. But if you think they don’t suit your taste and preferences why bother.

e.)    Tell yourself “I am just a human” – if you affirm to yourself that you are weak you tell your subconscious not to panic. But it doesn’t mean you continue doing the act. Try to be honest with yourself, you committed a sin but it doesn’t mean you cannot renew; next time you know better.

f.)     Don’t do it again – if you at least tried it and didn’t like then stop doing it and try to confess to the priest or if you are extremely guilty vow to yourself to never do it again. If you cannot avoid not to do it coz you might be addicted to the excitement be sure to be safe.

g.)    Get a friend’s support – if you’re a girl you’re a little shy and might be attacked with too much guilt compared to men. So just ask your friend for support and advices or you can go to a priest and ask for forgiveness.

My stand about one night stand, it is not good. It maybe just good at the first but being the person that you love is still the best thing ever.