Signs That She Is Not Interested In You

Learning how to read the signs when a woman is not interested in you will save you from wasting time pursuing a relationship that will never happen. Just because a woman isn't interested in you doesn't mean that you're a bad person or anything is wrong with you - it just means that she isn't the one for you.

Sign 1
She doesn't return your calls. She's not too busy, she's not shy, and she didn't loose your number. She isn't returning your call because she doesn't want to go out with you.

Sign 2
She always has other plans when you ask her out. This may be the case once or twice but every time? It's not likely. Plus, if she is interested in you she will offer times that she is available.

Sign 3
She does agree to go out with you but cancels at the last minute. Things come up in life but you have to wonder when every time you have plans she gets sick or has to work late.

Sign 4
She declines gifts from you or if you send flowers to her house she doesn't call to thank you. Everyone enjoys receiving gifts and if she declines or doesn't acknowledge the gesture then it’s a clear sign that she isn't interested in pursuing a relationship with you.

Sign 5
She does not engage in conversation. If she lets you do all the talking and only replies with "uh huh", "yeah" and "I don't know" then she is telling you that she has no desire to get to know you or have you get to know her.

Sign 6
She keeps her back to you. You see an attractive woman sitting at the bar and you would like to strike up a conversation. You sit down next to her and introduce yourself. If she positions herself so that her back, or even the back of her shoulder, is to you then it's time for you to set your sights elsewhere. This is the rule even if she is talking to you. A woman who is interested will turn to face you or, at the very least, turn in the seat so that she is shoulder to shoulder with you. Another sign is if she places her arm that is between the two of you on the bar. This is a roadblock. For example, if you sit on her right side, she will put her right arm on the bar. This is a sign that she is keeping a barrier between the two of you.

Sign 7
She tells you that she just wants to be friends or that she thinks of you as a brother. This means that you will never be romantic with her. If you did have a relationship in the past it means that you will never have one again. She enjoys your company but she does not want to sleep with you.

Sign 8
She talks about other men when she's around you. She's letting you know that she is interested in someone and it is not you.

Sign 9
She talks about her future plans and not one of them include you. This is her way of letting you know that she does not see a place for you in her future.

Sign 10
She tries to get you to notice other women. If you're out with a woman and she continually says "You would like my friend Lisa" or "Check her out, she's cute" she is trying to deflect your attention from her. You may want to consider asking out Lisa or the cutie because you will have a better chance with one of them.

Sign 11
She doesn't laugh at your jokes. She either doesn't get your sense of humor, which means you probably aren't compatible, or you're not as funny as you think you are. A woman who is interested in you will let you think that you are the funniest, most clever man she's ever met.

Sign 12
This one should go without saying but unfortunately it must be said. If a woman says the words "I am not interested in you" then take that at face value. This phrase may come in many different forms such as: I don't like you, I don't want to date you, I don't want to have a relationship with you, leave me alone, stop calling me...the options are endless. The fact is she is NOT playing hard to get. So take it like a man and move on. Why would you want to waste you time on someone who obviously isn't interested in you. There will be plenty of women out there who would love to date a great guy like you!