Reasons Why Some Girlfriends Always Accuse Their Boyfriends Of Cheating

Apr 27th, 2010 by saesult

Learn why some girlfriends like to believe that their men are flirting or going out with other women!

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Perhaps, once or twice in your life you have been with women who accused you of cheating out of nowhere. It might have surprised you. It might have compelled you to believe that women in general are complicated. But no, that is not true. Actually, various incidents shape up a person’s way of thinking. Same can be told for women, and only if you learn what incidents influence women to believe that they are being cheated then you have to consider the four elements given below.

  1. Got cheated by the ex: Sometimes being cheated can leave girls in trauma. But not all are strong enough to move on from it especially if it killed their self-esteem and feeling of being adequate. Under such circumstances, it becomes quite difficult to trust men, yet they do not shy away from being in new relationships. Unfortunately, their psychology still triggers them to believe that the past would keep repeating. Thus they are forced to feel suspicious about the current boyfriends no matter how happy things are in the new relationships.
  2. Mothers brainwashing them:  Many women are not happy in their marriages.  Some simply cope with their husbands’ extramarital affairs. Of course, letting the pain out is the best therapy one can have to lessen the depression surrounding the issue. Daughters, being the closest to them often take the step to become their counselors. The words find an outlet. The mothers feel better, but daughters, after hearing about such issues, often feel the need to change the way they see men. The ill deeds of their fathers and negative viewpoint of their mothers influence them to believe all men are dogs. But this does not mean they say no to relationships. The only problem that occurs is that they find it hard to digest that a man can be loyal. So they take pleasure in accusing boyfriends of cheating.
  3. Sixth sense at work: Some women are simply blessed with sharp sixth sense. So even from a long distance they can usually detect other women surrounding their boyfriends. Perhaps, these boyfriends are not cheating, and those women are just strangers or neutral female friends. But detected result with a pinch of jealousy can program a person to think negative and later start believing that something amiss is going on.
  4. Boyfriends’ behavior sending odd signal: Sometimes boyfriends, switching from jolliness to aloofness can make women worried. If the reason behind this is not communicated well, misapprehensions occur and lead women to believe that their men are losing interest in the relationships and thus they are chartering new waters. Losing someone we care about is frightening. Thus, these women first try to take control of their men by being slightly clingy, but when it is disrespected they let their anger out by simply mentioning that they are being backstabbed.

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big e, over a year ago
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Ok first I am a middle aged man. That being said, I would like to shed some light on some of the things being said here and in general. And here is one problem, lets talk about IN GENERAL! Listen to me carefully, NOT ALL MEN CHEAT ! Thats one of the worst generalizations that Women have passed on to their Daughters throughout History, and it is still having a negative affect on society even today. I just broke up with the Woman that I love for that exact reason. I was tired of the constant accusations. If I went to work , she accused me of cheating with the females at work. If I was going to the store she would accuse me of sleeping with one of the cashiers. I have Female friends , she has Male friends , who most are Exes. And one of mine is an ex wife, no exes after that, but its ok for her to talk to and go out with them all of the time, but one phone call or text to me once in awhile from my friends and I was sleeping with them. Never once had I accused her of any wrong doing because I trusted her. If I had to stop at the office after I got off of my first job ” I have two side businesses ” for one minute, I was accused of making plans to see someone , then each time a fight would ensue, and I would go home, and of course I was accused of starting the fight to get out of the house to see this other person. I have always been honest , open and never hid anything from her. So my question to the women reading this is, What do You think of this situation ? Do you agree with what she is saying? Do you think all Men cheat and if so why ? We are adults, not highschool kids, it doesnt have to be this hard for two people to be happy, and I know that this has to be a trust issue, and I am sorry for those of you who have been hurt, but I say now , you and She need to get over it, and just be happy with having a relationship with a loving and trusting Man. Please leave the past behind ! We are not all the same, we are not your exes who treated you like crap, and frankly I am tired of being put in category with the jerks who are doing this to them. Nuff said ? I think so

John Tugano, over a year ago
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that was true there are really some forces that makes women think that they are being cheated.One thing that they should do is to read your article for them to be enlightened and not be deceived by false thoughts.tnx great post.

nobertbermosa, over a year ago
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interesting…this gave me clear understanding why women accuse their men of being unfaithful

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