How to Know You Are Not Ready For A Relationship

Mar 22nd, 2010 by saesult

Certain red flags in your situation always signal that you are not yet ready for a relationship. Learn what they are!

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Love is one of the basic needs of human beings. And of course because of this, we look for a relationship. However, there are some red flags we come across which tell us that not all of us are yet ready to be in it. To know what they are, read the four points discussed in details below.

1. When you lose interest in your partners too quickly- Some people have a tendency to lose interest in their partners quickly. If you are one of them it is better for you to date multiple people instead of committing to one person.  However, make sure that you tell your dates in advance that it is just for fun.

2. When you know you feel insecure while being in relationships- A little bit of insecurity is not bad, but if you see that you have a constant fear that something bad will happen in your relationships then you have to imply that for the time being you are not ready for anyone. In details, do not blame yourself, but feeling of insecurity can actually cause a lot of inner conflicts, interrogations, and above all arguments in a relationship. Such factors can usually drive a good partner away. Therefore, first put yourself together by boosting your self-esteem and then be in a relationship.

3. When you know you have a need to flirt with multiple people- Flirting with other people while being in a relationship certainly equals to cheating. So deep down inside if you feel that you cannot keep your heart and eyes stationed on one person do not make any attempt to stay in a relationship.  Save your reputation by being single.

4. When you know your career means most to you- Career brings wealth and honor. Of course, because of this we study and embark on working. But if you are too devoted to these elements of your life it is better for you not be in a relationship. This is because a beloved will always want some attention, but this might just prevent you from concentrating on your career or juggle with the two at the same time in a horrific way.

Learn to save a heart instead of breaking it. Calamities like cheating or sudden breakups can leave your partner devastated. That is why, before you decide to be in a relationship analyze your mentality and personal situation so you can predict how you will be to your partner.

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Pinar Tarhan, over a year ago
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1 and 4 definitely rang alarn bells for me when I was dating this guy. I was constantly worried whether I should be home writing an article instead of spending 4 hours on a date. A fun and true to life article.

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