How to avoid a scary situation?

Self defense isn’t just about freaking out and hitting your attacker repeatedly over the head with your schoolbag. But if it isn’t just about fighting, then what else can you do to defend yourself?

Another part of self-defence is doing things that can help you stay safe.

Here are some tips on how to avoid a scary situation.

• Understand your surroundings. Walk or hang out in areas that are open, well lit, and well traveled. Become familiar with the buildings, parking lots, parks, and other places you walk. Pay particular attention to places where someone could hide — such as stairways and bushes.

• Avoid shortcuts that take you through isolated areas.

• If you're going out at night, travel in a group.

• Make sure your friends and parents know your daily schedule (classes, sports practice, club meetings, etc.). If you go on a date or with friends for an after-game snack, let someone know where you're going and when you expect to return.

• Check out hangouts. Do they look safe? Are you comfortable being there? Ask yourself if the people around you seem to share your views on fun activities — if you think they're being reckless, move on.

• Be sure your body language shows a sense of confidence. Look like you know where you're going and act alert.

• When riding on public transportation, sit near the driver and stay awake. Attackers are looking for vulnerable targets.

• Carry a cell phone if possible. Make sure it's programmed with your parents' phone number.

• Be willing to report crimes in your neighborhood and school to the police.

Good girls do fight "Back"

A victim says "Many assailants along the continuum employ tricks to gain access to us [the potential victim] and to move us to an isolated location."

88% of the most fatal violent crimes occur at the second re-located location. TRUST YOUR INSTINTS.

Experts says: "When you don't fight, you still get hurt. It's better to fight with everything. If you don't, the psychological and emotional damage is more severe. A busted lip will get fixed."