Father's Day Gifts: Lesson for Husband and Wife

Father's Day Gifts: Lesson for Husband and Wife

By Mr Ghaz, January 4, 2009

Father's Day Gifts: Lesson for Husband and Wife

Generally, most of the couple in this world is dreaming of having a harmonies family, living in peaceful, happiness and comfortable. There is great worldly benefit in showing concern towards and comforting the wife. The first and foremost is that one's and life becomes enjoyable and pleasant. Each one of the spouses shares the happiness and grief of the other.

Lesson 1: Paradise within the Home

1) Great pleasure is felt when a man, exhausted at the end of a hard day's work, come home and delights himself with his family. They comfort him and he, in turn, is also concerned of their well-being and comfort. Those who lead a favorable social life with their families are really blessed with paradise in this very world.

2) The mystery behind the gratifying attitude of the saints of God is that, they are favorable social life with their families and locals. They are concerned of the well-being families so that their lives can be one of peace and enjoyment. On the other hand, wherever there are quarrels and constant tiffs, there is no pleasure among those people.

3) When a man, exhausted at the end of a hard day's work, comes home also to be greeted with grief and problems. Nonetheless, the temperaments of the people today have curdled. Insensitivity has become the norm of the day.

4) Many people prefer to live such unhappy lives. However, if a person is even slightly sensitive, he considers such a life as a life of hell in this very world. Some women are fond of saying that the life is quite normal, where one spouse's hand is always in motion whilst the other spouse's tongue is always in motion.

Lesson 2: Making the Wife Comfortable

1) There are some women in our locality who are leading a life of total comfort and ease. Their ages are around the forties but they look as though they have been married just a year or two ago. They do not look older than twenty five.

2) One of the benefits of keeping the wife in comfort and ease that she will remain healthy and the effects of old age will not appear as quickly. Every single thing has its boundaries under various circumstances. Don't consider the women to be weak and helpless thereby inflicting injustices upon them.

3) However, cruelty and injustice can never be tolerated. Her, a conjugal but their relationship is double-faceted; a relationship of leadership and relationship.

Lesson 3: Man and Woman Need One Another

1) Another point of similarity that comes to mind is that just as a person is unable to forbear with a lack of clothing over his body, similarly a man and woman are unable to forbear with the lack of each other's company brought about by marriage.

2) Not only do they need each to fulfil their carnal desires, but she is in need of her husband for his assistance etc. and he is in need of her service and comfort etc. During illness, nobody can serve the husband like a wife would.

3) After the death of his first wife, an eighty-year old man decided to marry a second time. He had many daughters-in-law who prevented him from re-marrying on the grounds that they were there to serve him.

Lesson 4: The Husband and Wife Adornment for One Another

1) Another point of resemblance in the simile is that the women are like clothes for you and you are clothing unto them. It comes to mind is that one of the characteristics of clothing is that it conceals. Similarly, women are a source of concealment for men and vice versa. In other words, they are a screen for each other's faults and shortcomings.

2) Although clothing was not explicitly referred to as adornment in this verse, the outcome of adornment is mentioned. In other word, we have created such clothing for you which conceal your inelegance.

3) In short, just as clothing is a source of adornment, the wife is a source of adornment to the husband and vice versa. The husband's adornment lies in his wife in a sense that a man with a wife in a sense that a man with a wife children holds a degree of esteem in society.

Lesson 5: Prohibition Possessions

1) Both of the husband and wife enjoy individual ownership of their respective possessions. It is cruel of the husband to utilize his wife's goods without his satisfaction. By satisfaction we mean that there are very persuasive signs which convince one that the owner is totally satisfied and cordially happy.

2) The reality of the happiness of the heart is that the second person also has the ability to refuse. In other words, at times the person from whom permission to utilize a certain item etc. is being sought, is unable to refuse. Hence, his permission is not really considered as satisfaction and happiness of the heart.

Lesson 6: Furtively Combining Husband's Wealth

Some women furtively stash away their husband's money over the years on the pretext that it would be of some assistance if he has to die first. For instance, if he gives her 40 Dollars a month for household expenses, she spends 20 and hoards the remaining 20. If the husband dies before her, she considers herself the exclusive owner of the entire amount and she considers herself the exclusive owner of the entire amount and she does not even inform anyone about it. Remember, it is incorrect to do this. The other heirs are also entitled to that sum.

Conclusion

These are the best 'gifts' from husband specially dedicated to wife, in order to keep the wife in comfort and ease. Today we have thousands of examples before us where the lives of the husband and wife were destroyed merely because there existed a difference in their nature and each one could not understand the others nature and habits. You may have indeed heard of and seen incidents like these in every city and village where the union was destroyed.

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