Women and Jobs

Marriages that once were considered an eternal bond have taken shape of an experiment which works out for some and vice versa. According to statistics, the divorce rate in U.S. is 41% for first marriage, 60% for second marriage and 73% for third marriage. What does this suggest? Have the concept of life long partners become obsolete? Do people get married with an intension to get separated nowadays? Is today's woman so advance that they are not emotionally disturbed by this pattern? The answer to all these questions is most probably 'NO'. No one especially women enter the bond of marriage with an intension to break it off.

This article focuses on an important aspect of marriage that many women nowadays fail to realize .. Spending time at home. I read an article written by a British writer who regarded women's jobs as a major factor contributing to divorces. I am also a freelance house wife and before working from home i worked for 2 years as an equity dealer. On basis of my experience i can relate to what that writer was referring to.

The problem is not with independence of women but with the natural system that has been designed by our Creator. A man marries a woman not just for a physical partner but for a partner who can soothe him after his day full of hectic responsibilities that he bear for the well being of his home. If both men and women start doing job with similar schedules, that means both of them bear the same tiredness, expect same comfort from their partners and both of them end up getting nothing in return. This ungrateful attitude that husband and wife both have to face creates a feeling of disappointment in relationships. Women complain that they deserve similar comfort and appreciation from men and both of them ends up dissatisfied and eventually decide to break it off. I am not against working of women, since i have also been in that place -- but a little flexibility in form of finding job with less duty hours, work at home jobs or any other part time employment can bring the satisfaction in marriage. I want to suggest a more lenient and flexible attitude from women since this is how women are created and if they continue with their ego to reject this notion, the trend of divorces and relationship disasters has no stopping.