How To Make Your Husband Feel Like A King!
Your husband is out there all day slaying the dragons for you. If you are a stay at home mom, or a stay at home wife, then you should show your appreciation in some simple ways. Believe me they will pay off! Remember what your mama taught you: You get more flys with honey than you do with vinegar!
- Lavish your husband with affection! The return will be ten-fold. He will feel wanted, loved and 10 feet tall. Caress his cheek when you kiss him goodbye in the morning, be flirtatious and a little naughty and tell him how much you’ll miss him. He’ll be thinking of you all day, and will be in a hurry to get home to you.
- Make his favorite meal at least once a week. This is simple, and food really his the way to a mans heart. The rest of the week always think of your husband as your planning your dinner or cooking and what he would really enjoy. Make breakfasts, lunches and dinners for your husband. Put some love into your cooking and he will be sure to notice. He deserves a decent meal before work, while working and especially when he comes home. Believe me, he doesn’t want pizza, or frozen fish sticks. That’s not a meal fit for a king!
- Stop nagging. Its not getting you anywhere except further away from your husband. Ask things nicely. Remember to say please, and thank you. The way we talk to our husbands will show how much we really respect them. Never begin a sentence with “Why can’t you ever” or, “Jill’s husband Tom always____why don’t you_____” Who wants to be compared to someone else’s husband. In his head, he is thinking, “guess you should have married Jill’s husband.” Imagine him saying you should be more like Jill! Good Lord, we would be appalled. Be nice. You married him, for better or worse so be prepared to live with the worst. They don’t change after you marry them, what you see is what you get. So make the best of it and stop nagging him. Remember he is the King! We do not nag the king.
- Praise him. Yes, I said praise the man you married. So what if he doesn’t praise you for all your hard work. Everything isn’t about you. Were celebrating men this week, get over yourself. Let him know how much you appreciate what he does. Let him know that you think he is an excellent father and husband. He would die for you and your children wouldn’t he? So let us give him the praise he rightly deserves. I’m guessing he will beging to praise you too!
- Tease the King. When the kids are tucked away for the night, go put on something a little naughty. Just a little naughty. While he’s watching tv, casually lean over and pick up a book. Stretch out seductively next to him on the couch and just read. Ignore him. Continue to read and stretch and dangle a foot near him, stretch your leg high in the air like you have a cramp…you get the idea. Seduce your husband! Remember how easy it was to play that role of seductress when you were dating? Try playing that role again. Pretend you’re dating and you really want him. Nothing makes a man feel more like the king, believe me.
- Get dressed, put on some make up and brush your teeth. If George Clooney were coming over to your house, you would go all out. Shouldn’t we be doing the same thing for our husbands?
- Give your man a massage. Don’t wait until he asks for one. Just do it. Let him know that you know he is stressed, tired and weary. Yeah, I know so are you. But remember this is for the men. Men love love love to get a massage. Even a bad massage is a good massage! So break out the lotions, and dig up some ambition and rub your man down.
- Stop complaining. Your husband is not the complaint department at Macy’s. He just worked 10 hours and the first thing he hears when he walks in the door shouldn’t be about how your daughter drove you nuts all day. He doesn’t want to hear about how tired you are, or how hot the house is, or that the washing machine was acting up. Let him get in the door and unwind. Greet him with a cold beer and a kiss and ask him how his day was. Later on you can discuss (not complain) about issues that happened in your day. And for Pete’s sake, stop telling your children “wait till your father gets home”. What is that? Handle it yourself, you are an adult too.
- Find something to talk about besides your children. Yes, your children are great, and they are cute, and wonderful. But there must be something else you can discuss with your husband beside the graphic detailed contents of your sons diaper. I’m pretty sure, he won’t find it as charming as you do. Read the paper, watch the news, anything that might be a good conversation besides your children. How much would he love if you could carry on a conversation about the Yankees? Show interest in something he is interested in. Watch how much your husband will start to talk.
- Keep your home clean and inviting and a safe haven for your king. There is nothing demeaning about waiting on your husband. Its just a nice thing to do. Don’t read so much into it. You can bring him his coffee. You can tell him to go sit down and put his feet up after dinner, you will clean up. Our husbands deserve special treatment. They support and love us unconditionally all through our monthly hormone hell and pregnancies, and all of our other special moments.
Give the man a beer, a massage, a steak, a little lovin’ and a lotta praise. He deserves it. He has earned it. And we owe it to them. All hail the king!
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