Definite ways to know if someone is interested in you.

Maybe you have asked a friend what their opinion was, about someone you think likes you.  We are at times, too close to a situation that we cannot trust our intuition on relationships, so we ask someone to tell us what they see or know.  This idea of looking from the outside is an ideal way to know if a person is interested in us. By being objective we are looking at our relationship with another from an outsiders view.  It is sort of like asking your clone to examine if that person really likes us.  Try that the next time, you ponder if someone likes you or not.

Take a look to see how this special person treats others.  If his Mom is treated well, you will be too.  If you are being treated similar to how he treats  most  of his friends, he likes you. If you have a crowned place, wow, you don't need to ask anything further, since super treatment is extraordinary. All things can really be compared to something. Take an honest look and you will gain access to your quandries and very quickly.  Now, if he puts on a front, you have been scupped, but most people are who they are through and through.  Take your time, like an investigative reporter does,  to get the full scoop of a subject, your special person.

Ask the person what their expectations are about you.  Might sound forward, but do you want to waste valuable time if they are using you until the former girlfriend comes back to them.  Listen to the answer to your question.  If friendship is the start, they already are willing to build something with you that you can invest yourself into as well.

Don't read or see things that are not there. Emotions are difficult to reign in once they are unbridled.  Hold the horses at a slow trot before you let the galloping begin. If you are not sure where you stand, you not enjoying where you are, can be cut short if you aren't careful.  If a person likes you, they will build something solid. You want to do that same thing with another person too.  Be glad for the time you have to spend together to let the depth of feelings nuture into something deeper. 

When you are giant stepping and the other person is keeping up, they like you.  They want to be by your side and keep up with you.  Your company is important and they enjoy themselves with you. Be on the alert if one person is baby stepping and the other is giant stepping.  There is always a slight difference between people as they form a bond, but it should be a reasonable space and not a gap.

Do they think more about you than they do themselves? If that answer is yes, they like you a lot. Now, I am not talking about the number of phone calls they make to you.  Anyone can call 4 times a day.  It is the depth of the reason why they call.  Are they wanting to hear your voice? Is it to find out if you are home? Search the motives and the pay back that they get by giving you attention.  If the pay back to them is huge, take some time to research more. Pay attention more and be careful.

Be still and reflect on exactly how you feel with that person.  Be still and reminisce how you feel when you are not with that person too.  You will give yourself the answer.