4 Signs that he doesn't deserve you

Signs that you should leave him

The difference between dating a nice and unconventional artist and dating a loser with no job and future plans can be extremely difficult to establish. But you must decide if your partner is a day dreamer or just some lazy guy. Here are some obvious signs that you should leave him.

First, we have to establish that you can't keep a relationship that doesn't bring you any benefits. I'm not talking about the financial part, but rather about the degree of comfort given by that relationship. Even if your partner is going through a more difficult period, there is a limit between someone who has minor problems and another one who has problems every day.

Here are four situations that should help you find out if your partner doesn't deserve you:

1. He's always broke

Maybe you have financial problems too, there's nothing to be ashamed of. It becomes a problem when he does nothing, asking always for your support. In the first months, you can help him, but if you notice that things don’t get better, then it's better to give up your relationship. That until he will find a new sponsor, and you'll end by feeling used.

2. He’s lazy

When you go out, he sleeps; when you come back, you find him on the couch, watching some stupid TV shows. A few minutes later, he goes out with the boys. Certainly he didn't have time to do anything useful, because he was too tired, as he got home at 3 o'clock in the morning. The best would be to lock the door and to leave him, because laziness can be contagious.

3. He's too messy

You claim that he's unconventional, but the psychologists say that he’s massy, being unable to keep anything under control, not even his own existence. The apparent mess in his room reflects his lifestyle.

4. He wants to be supported financially

Regardless of how much he loves you, your partner mustn't be supported financially by you. As I was saying at point 1, you can help him but you can't give everything without getting anything in return. Help him to find a job and watch his reaction; if he really wants to do something with his life, then he will make everything possible to fix the problem. Men in love are usually protective and generous; do you think your boyfriends fits in this category? If not, it's better to leave him.

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