How to Properly Seduce a Woman

It all begins with confidence. As a man you must be and show confidence in order to attract a woman. Women are attracted to confident men. There is a common belief that women are attracted to "bad boys" over nice guys. This is not entirely true. It is the confidence that many "bad boys" exude that attracts women to them.

Appeal to a woman's mind. An important component of a woman's libido lies between her ears. Listen to what she has to say and talk to her with interest and enthusiasm. Try to determine what she's interested in and steer the conversation in that direction. A smart woman once said, "seduce my mind, and you can have my body".

Compliment your woman. Every woman loves to be complimented. This is very important. Pick out something unique about her and make it a point to notice it and tell her. Never be afraid to give compliments to a woman. It may be difficult at first but it gets easier each time. You may want tell her how beautiful she is. Tell her that you love her eyes, or her lips, or her hair. Make your compliments sincere. Don't lie and don't be phony, she will know. She will also know if you are being sincere and she will appreciate it and be flattered. She is also likely to be more responsive to your romantic advances.

OK, now let's get to the kissing. When you move in to kiss her, make sure not to move too quickly. Look her directly in the eyes for several seconds first. Eye contact is very important. Take your hands and gently cup her face and chin. Slowly pull her head towards you as you move in and kiss her softly on the lips. That first kiss should not be overwhelming or too wet. Avoid using your tongue at first. Concentrate on soft gentle kisses as opposed to one long deep one. As the kissing progresses you can begin using your tongue to explore her lips and her tongue. Feel free to be vocal with a soft moan or a few choice words. A woman likes to know that you are aroused and that you are enjoying her.

Two of a woman's most sensitive areas are her neck and her earlobes. Pay attention to them, particularly her neck. Soft neck kisses mixed with gentle licks with the tongue as well as soft neck bites can really drive a woman wild. Don't forget to breathe and again feel free to be vocal. If you feel like whispering something erotic in her ear go right ahead, just don't be crude.

Finally it is important to hold a woman tightly. A woman wants to feel your arms wrapped tightly around her. They can be around her back or her waist or her hips. She will respond more passionately if you hold her with strength and purpose. Touch is very important also so while your holding her feel free to run your hands down her back or her arms or even touch her thigh or knee.

At this point assuming that you have done everything correctly and have appealed to the woman's body and mind and treated her with tenderness and respect she should be very turned on. If she is not then she is simply not into you for whatever reason and it's time to say good night. On the other hand if you have been successful in your attempt to seduce her then its time to proceed to the bedroom for the lovemaking.