5 TIPS TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE

5 TIPS TO MAKE SOMEONE FALL IN LOVE

For as long as man has walked the earth, the power of love has baffled him. Often times we feel powerless in who we fall in love with, or even moreso, who falls in love with us. Thanks to the advancement of modern medicine, we can now state with conviction, that you can learn how to make someone love you. If you know the basic elements of love, and know how to apply various techniques, you can control who you fall in love with and who falls in love with you.

1. Use mental magic- Men, pick up a copy of Amy Vanderbilt's or Miss Manners' guides. Read it with the same intensity as you'd read How to Satisfy a Woman Every Time and Make Her Beg for More, because when you follow the advice therein, you'll be satisfying two parts of her anatomy-her heart and her brain.

2. Don't make an embarrassing situation worse- Ladies overlook their potential lover's minor slips, spills, fumbles, blunders, and faux pas. They obviously ignore raspberries and all other signs of human frailty. Real ladies (and Gentlemen) never say butterfingers.

3. Dress like a Gentleman - In spite of millions of years of sexual evolution, men and women still approach romance differently. Even when seeking a casual liaison (i.e., a one-night stand), do not go out dressed like an unmade bed. Dress as though you were auditioning to be her husband.

4. Ladies, any dress will do- Women, the next time you say, "I haven't got a thing to wear," don't worry about it. Any outfit will do as long as it's flattering. He's going to mentally undress you anyway. A smile, good makeup, and receptive body language is far and away your most enticing ensemble.

5. Make them think you are just alike- Early in a budding relationship, you don't know enough about your Quarry to invoke his values, her attitudes, or his interests. But you can hint that you feel just like your Quarry does. Simply listen carefully to the seemingly arbitrary choice of words and echo them back.

It's time to stop leaving love to chance. Time to stop being too shy to meet someone, wondering why a promising first date wound up going nowhere, or realizing too late that it happened with the wrong person anyway. Nicholas Boothman has a much better way. Drawing on his expertise in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Boothman charts a three-step plan that will help anyone find the love of his or her life. Step one: get ready, come to know who you are through honest self-assessment, and then to know what type of person is your matched opposite, i.e., the person who completes you. Step two, the heart of the program, is working seriously on interpersonal skills, how to be charming, not alarming; flirt with confidence; synchronize body and voice to create trust and chemistry; keep enthusiasm high; even how to cast a wide social net and dress for a first meeting.