Why men are afraid of marriage

You have been with your boyfriend for four years now and you
love each other very much but he won’t marry you. What is the problem
there? Why do men not want to get married? Men are afraid of commitment more than women. Men don’t like to talk about commitment or
relationship. It has something to do with their manhood. It’s like how
women love to talk about feelings and men would avoid it at all cost.
They would avoid talking about their feelings in any way that they can.
They would buy you a present just to express their feelings but they
won’t talk about it. Some men have trouble communication to women. They
don’t like to talk about their feelings and it’s not uncommon among all
men. Men are less talkative than women. They’re more action oriented.
Instead of saying, “I love you” they will buy you a nice dinner to
express it.

I dated different types of men in the
past and I noticed that they don’t talk about their feelings for you.
They do more than they talk. Men are even shy when it comes to the word
marriage. They probably don’t know what to do. If you notice that most
marriage is planned by the wife and not really by the husband. The
husband will just go along with the flow. They will pay for everything
but they will not intervene. They don’t have a lot of saying when it
comes to most things in the relationship and women usually take the
lead. Men are different from women in that they enjoy their freedom and
singledom more than women. Women like to have someone who will commit to them and take care of them. They are needier than men.

Men can take care of themselves and they’re not looking for someone
to take care of them. They are not looking for the same thing as women.
Women are looking for comfort and security and men are the providers.
They have the control in a relationship and that’s why they don’t feel
a need for marriage or a rush to get marries while women do have a
rush. Women have to get marry before they are 30 while men can still be
a good bachelor at the age of 38. Women can only have children while
they’re young and they can’t have children after a certain age so they
tend to want to get married before they are 30. There are many
differences in men and women and that’s why women are in a rush while
men aren’t really rushing it.

It could be that men have not thought about marriage enough until
their girlfriend brought it up. They are busy being young still and
enjoying the no responsibility role in life. Marriage can scare a men
because they are responsible for their wives and all else in the house.
This is why it’s such a big deal for them. They might not be ready for
marriage just yet. If a man is building his life, college and business,
he is no where ready for marriage. He wants to get his goals
accomplished before he thinks about marriage. He might see marriage as
an extra responsibility on top of all of his problems and that’s why he
won’t marry you just yet. He might think it about it later when he’s
ready. Readiness is everything. If you’re in the middle of Medical
school or in the middle of building a big business, you’re no where
ready for a marriage. It will depend on how ready your boyfriends are
in your relationship.