Why inlaws are a problem to your marriage

Who can avoid the inlaws? We will all have inlaws one day. They're there no matter what you do. You have to deal with them. Most of the time, inlaws are problematic unless you're one of those lucky people who have great inlaws. Inlaws should be avoided at all cost if you want to keep a relationship happy and going well. From my experience and my cousin's I learned that inlaws are harsh and mean sometimes. They're strangers whom you barely met. You might get to know them over time but it doesn't mean that they will be nice to you.

When you're married, it's important to have a place of your own so that you don't run into problems with your inlaws. You should have a place of your own so that your in-laws don’t bother you. My cousin used to live with their in-laws and that’s how problems started. They would have never have problems if they moved out on their own. They get into arguments and then they got into a big fight. My cousin kicks his parent in-law out of his home. They have to go live somewhere else and they have to buy a new home. They had a really bad fight. There were swearing and threats. My cousin had to get a restraint order against her husband. He said a lot of embarrassing things to his parent in- laws. They were pure insults and the parent inlaws moved out of course. They were very mean and insulting but that’s what happens when you live with your in-laws. You will have problems. I think that couples should get a life of their own so that they don’t run into problems with in-laws. How can you live with strangers? I haven't heard a lot of good stories so far.  Even though they are your laws but they will have their differences and you will have yours. It’s best to live on your own and buy a place of your own. After all you are a grown up and you need your freedom.

For some reasons, you don't hear too many nice stories from inlaws. It’s rare to come across in-laws that can be completely nice to you. Once in awhile, you would hear a good stories. I wouldn’t recommend living in the same house with your in-laws. I think that you will have more freedom on your own and just visit your in-laws once in a blue moon. In-laws can be controlling too and I have seen it with my own eyes. They can’t help but tell their son and daughter what to do still. They can’t let go of their kids.  You have to move away and give them a chance to move on with their lives. If you stick around they will have a chance to be controlling. It can be agitating when they try to tell your spouse what to do and especially tell him what to do with you. It can be agitating to have them in your relationship. It won’t work that way. If you’re a grown up you should move on out with your life and have a life of your own. It’s much better that way. You will find a happier life if you stay away from your inlaws.