Signs That Your Husband is Having an Affair

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Probably the male species will be very mad at me after reading this article. Having an affair has been a daily habit for most married men. They have kept this secret to their wives as far as the B.C. era. Men have talents when it comes to keeping secrets; they never admit any third party affairs unless they are caught in the act. And by the way, men also have talent making stories like “the girl you saw with me the other day, oh, that's my sister!” But what exactly are the signs that your husband (or boyfriend) is having an affair? Below are the most common signs:

• He is always busy. This is an obvious red flag. It is difficult to serve two masters with just two hands. Even if your husband is good in time management, he will always fell short on his scheduled assignments to you or to your kids. Once a husband is on the “seeking mode”, he will cut his time with his family to satisfy his urge towards another lover.

• You always catch him whispering on the phone. Most of us whisper because we do not want other people to hear our conversation with the other party. If you always catch your mate whispering on the phone or walks away from you when “someone” calls him on his cell phone then something fishy is going on. It is obvious that he is hiding something from you.

• Your husband is extra nice to you. If your husband is showering you with so much attention and love these past few days with no obvious reasons like anniversary, birthday, promotion, etc.  Is covering up something? Maybe he did something in the near past that he is guilty of or maybe he is planning to commit something in the near future. This is a classic technique men usually perform… and it always works.

• When he brings you to a fancy restaurant that is unfamiliar to you. If he takes you to this "lovers restaurant" that is new to you but very familiar to your husband. Try asking yourself why your husband is  so familiar with the menu and knows some of the staff dispite the fact that this is your first time to dine in this place. Maybe he already dated other girls in this place? Possible?

• Your husband is becoming cold to your relationship. When your husband is no longer interested on having sex, when he do not bother starting an intimate conversation and lost interest with your stories  …maybe he is no longer in-love with you but in-love with someone else.

Men are continuously upgrading their skills and sooner or later these signs may no longer be applicable. But here is my final note; men will never look for an affair if he is happy with his wife. Maybe wives should also assess their relationship with their husbands and try to find out if he is happy with you.