10 Signs a Woman Isn't Interested in You

Guys often wonder if a woman is truly interested in them. Sometimes the signs aren't very clear and of course, there are some women who are very clear about their disinterest in a guy. When you meet someone for the first time, it may be difficult to gauge their interest in you. They may be nervous and more time is needed to know just how interested they are.

If you've known a woman for a good while and are confused as to her interest in you, analyze how she acts and reacts around you.

10 Signs a Woman Isn't Interested

1. She doesn't look you directly in the eyes. When we want to know someone more intimately, we strive to maintain eye contact. It's like looking into the depth of the other person, searching for more of them. The exception is if the woman is nervous, she may not look you directly in the eyes early on when first meeting or dating. If she rarely looks you in the eyes on a continuous basis as you get to know her, there's more to the issue.

2. She doesn't engage in conversation. She's aloof to what is being discussed and doesn't offer much to the conversation. You begin to feel you are talking to a brick wall. For the first date, take nervousness into consideration, but if she doesn't make an attempt to engage in conversation, her interest probably isn't there.

3. She doesn't ask questions about you, your life. Anything she knows, you've had to offer the information. Sharing what is happening in your life, your interests begins to feel futile in your attempts. A person that is truly interested in someone, has a great desire to know all about them.

4. She only wants to be with you when it benefits her. Otherwise, she makes no effort to be part of your life.

5. Her body language is stiff, not open to you. When a woman is interested, her body language is warm and welcoming. She stands in close proximity to you, wanting to be near.

6. She suddenly becomes busier than usual. She makes excuses not to be with you and most of the excuses are rather lame. Her time devoted to you becomes less frequent. She may not answer her phone for days.

7. She shows no enthusiasm in your presence. You sense she would rather be anywhere, but with you. She may act aloof or bored and easily distracted away from you.

8. She doesn't confide in you. Her life is a mystery and she isn't willing to let you in.

9. She lies. Someone who is genuinely interested wants to be seen as honest and trustworthy. She doesn't want to take the chance of losing you.

10. She's argumentative, disagreeing with you about everything. She may start arguments over the most trivial of things and possibly placing blame on you when it isn't justified.

If the woman is new to your life, give it some time to know her better. If you've known her a good while, it's time for a heart to heart discussion to get to the bottom of the matter, as to why she's suddenly sending signals of disinterest.